Here we are, wrapping up February—the month of love, connection, and deep conversations. But let’s be clear, love doesn’t stop when the Valentine’s Day roses fade or when life gets busy. Love is built in the everyday moments—the patience when things get tense, the kindness when your spouse is having a rough day, and the intentional effort to stay connected even when it’s not convenient.
The Real Work of Love
If this month taught us anything, it’s that love is more than words—it’s how you show up for your spouse. Think back on what we covered:
🖤 Empathy: Understanding your spouse’s needs, even when you don’t feel the same way.
🖤 Communication: Listening to connect, not just to respond.
🖤 Conflict Resolution: Choosing kindness over being “right.”
🖤 Love Languages: Speaking love in a way your spouse actually receives it.
🚨 Now the question is: Are you going to keep this energy up? 🚨
Love That Lasts is Love That’s Intentional
👉🏾 Patience is choosing to breathe before reacting.
👉🏾 Kindness is making your spouse feel valued, even in the small things.
👉🏾 Intentional love is making time for connection, not just waiting until there’s a problem.
We’ve spent this month talking about ways to strengthen your marriage—but it’s up to YOU to apply it. You don’t have to do it perfectly, just do it consistently.
The TLC Challenge: Keep the Connection Going
Before we step into a new month, ask yourself:
💭 What’s one habit I started this month that I want to keep doing?
💭 Where can I be more intentional in my marriage?
💭 How can I show love in a way that feels good to my spouse?
Drop your answer in the comments and let’s keep growing together! Because a strong marriage isn’t built in a day—it’s built in the daily choices to love, listen, and connect.
💛 Let’s keep the momentum going. Who’s with me?
Coach TaShon
Your Marriage Communication Coach
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